I have a difficult time understanding this, because I am Catholic, and don't think of pastors in general as having sex lives, let alone getting married and having affairs with members of their flock. I worked at a different type of church in the past, so I obviously know that pastors from other denominations and faiths are not always celibate, but I just have a hard time imagining being sexually attracted to a man of God, let alone acting on the impulse. I've definitely seen more than a few shows about it on Investigation Discovery, but I just don't personally see the attraction. I'm sure there's an element of the forbidden, especially if one or both is married, but to me, this is similar to a therapist/patient relationship, and is a no no.